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When somebody comes to you for advice, it means they're relying on you for some required insight. You are able to help them and give them the best advice possible by abiding by these few steps.
Listen to what they have to talk about before you begin giving them advice. A lot of times just giving somebody an ear to listen to them is all they truly need. You're doing more then you believe by just paying attention to what they have to talk about. You don't have to give them advice on everything they're saying. Occasionally just talking through their matters with you can do wonders for them even if you state nothing at all!
When your friend is speaking to you try not to turn the issue around on yourself. For example if she/he is discussing something don't encourage them to do precisely what you did on a like situation. Her/his situation likely isn't precisely the same as yours, so it's crucial to hear them out and just provide advice not tell them what they should do.
When somebody is asking you for your impression or advice it is not a time to assault the individual. Stick with the subject and not their actions or the individual in general. Consider how you'd want somebody to treat you in a like situation. Most likely you'd not want to be attacked by words would you? Just be nice and truthful in a tasteful manner.
Be truthful - If you truly have no clue what t say to the individual then be honest and tell them. Just state you've no clue what they should do or you truly don't have a view about their situation. It's better to be truthful then give them advice you don't truly stand behind. Also you should be truthful with them if you do have a sentiment about their situation, just think before you talk and don't be rude. There are ways to state things without being vile about it.
There might be times you want to offer somebody advice they're not seeking, keep it to yourself! Unless you're an authority in the field then occasionally your advice may only make the individual more confused or worried about something they weren't even thinking of in the first place.
So perhaps there's something you just truly feel you have to tell your friend, the most beneficial thing to do is consider the consequences before talking. Consider how the individual will most likely respond and if it’s crucial that they know what you want to tell them. Occasionally you just need to mind your own business and other times you shouldn't. Don’t forget to think about the individuals feelings!
Discovering the positive in any spot should always be done. It is so simple to always center on the negative of everything, but it takes work to discover the positive. You need to help the individual realize there's good in every situation you just have to dig deep occasionally to find it. Once you start doing this in your on life it will become simpler to be a more positive individual for yourself and your friends. Consider it; would you rather be around somebody who's negative or positive?
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