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This sort of confidence can't be counterfeited. True self-assurance isn't brassy, cocky, aggressive, or self-important. It isn't a belief of dominance or superiority over other people. Nor is it fake modesty, self-effacement, or submissiveness. Once you see your might through Reality, you get naturally confident.
It isn't simple to acknowledge the reality of our might. Too frequently we dread our own greatness. We make-believe we're powerless, mistakenly believing that this in some way frees us from the responsibility of might.
It's truthful that we may deny ourselves access to our own power, but we may never escape total obligation for our lives. If we live in denial of this reality, we block ourselves from true self-assurance and settle for temporary brassiness at best.
Self-assurance starts with a resolute commitment to reality. You can't get genuinely confident by making believe your way into it. To build up your self-assurance, strive to become as truthful as possible, both with yourself and other people.
The more truthful you become, the more accurate your example of reality will be. As you see reality with increasing accuracy, your choices will improve, and in turn so will your actions and your results.
Accurate notions lead to effective outcomes, and self-assurance is the emotional remainder of effectiveness. You feel confident when you are able to anticipate favorable results from your actions with an elevated degree of certainty.
Self-assurance has both short-run and long-run forms. Short-run self-assurance is the anticipation of short-run success. For instance, you might feel confident about driving your auto now as you've driven it so many times previously, so it's fair to anticipate continued success in that area.
Long-run self-assurance is the anticipation of long-run success, even though short-run failures might happen. This type of self-assurance comes from realizing that failure is a crucial part of accomplishing goals. While you might not expect to succeed in a fresh endeavor immediately, you feel confident you'll finally succeed if you hang in.
Don't bother attempting to fake self-assurance. It's not genuine and totally unneeded. There's no need to wangle yourself into a mistaken feeling of certainty when actually you're filled up with self-doubt. It's absolutely all right to feel tentative and still take action.
If you merely endure, your doubt will finally fade as you build up experience, and you'll realize the feeling of real self-assurance rather than having to perpetually fake it. If you attempt something new and truly stink at it, merely accept how bad you are without attempting to profess otherwise, and understand that you'll finally grow beyond this stage. There's utterly no disgrace in being an initiate. Beginning is merely the opening move toward winning.
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