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Chapter 6: Continuous improvement on your mistakes

Nobody wants to make mistakes as most people view the act of making these as a failure. People are afraid of failure so they always try their very best not to make mistakes. They feel so bad when they were able to do something wrong. If you are one of those people who have this kind of viewpoint when it comes to making mistakes, you should open your eyes and look at the brighter side of the problem.

If you make mistakes, it does not mean that you need to punish yourself. You should not be afraid of making mistakes because you can get lessons from these. It means that your faults will teach you what to do next time to avoid failure.

The usual thing that happens when someone made mistakes is that he or she tries to justify his or her actions to conceal his or her faults. This attitude is not good, don’t you know that? With this behavior, you will not be able to learn from your mistakes. If you will not learn and understand the lessons behind your blunders, you will never improve.

The most crucial aspect of making mistakes is to admit them. If the situation affects only you, ensure that you really know what you have done and document that. But, if the scenario is affecting people around you, confess your mistakes and think of those things that you can supposedly do to avoid them. You must also document them as well.

To make sure that you will learn from your mistakes, you should keep in mind the following tips:

You need to identify your mistakes. If they are obvious then it will not be hard for you to do the job. When you don’t know the reason why something bad happened, you can seek help from other people and get their standpoint. Once the problem has been identified, don’t forget to document it and think of some actions to be taken to prevent the problem from happening once again.

Admit your mistakes. After identifying your mistakes, you should admit them. Accept the fact that you have made them because if you deny them, you will not learn how to get up and make a change for your own good. Remember that mistakes have lessons that you should bear in mind to avoid making the same things again and again.

Make a list of your mistakes and include the actions to be taken so that you can prevent the reoccurrence of those faults you have done before. Label the journal where you listed these things as “mistakes”. Keep the journal readily available for frequent reviewing. When you review your faults, you would find the actions you’ve taken that will be helpful in any problem that you might be encountering.

Implement the new things you have learned. As said before, your mistakes are trying to teach you certain lessons which you should apply into your everyday living. Apply what you’ve learned from recognizing, accepting and documenting your faults.

If you will look at your mistakes positively and you follow these suggestions, you have a higher chance to obtain a continuous improvement. So while you are still a student, you should break your habit of denying your faults. Start your struggle to learn from your mistakes today!

Chapter 7: Be friendly and make lots of friends

Meeting new people and making them friends is one of the most important things that you should do in life. If you enter a new school, one of the things you will have to do is to make your classmates as your new friends. Do you wish to have more friends but you don’t know what to do? Don’t worry! With a little technique and a positive viewpoint, you will be able to make your own circle of friends in just a very short period of time.

The first thing you should do is to go out to meet other students. Before you can make new friends, you need to meet different people. If you are new to a community, you can branch out from simply meeting your classmates. Why don’t you check the local bulletin board to know the activities that will be held within your community? You can attend at least one of those events and begin talking to others.

You also need to be friendly. When you meet new people, you should not forget that you have to smile, keep eye contact and offer your hand for a shake. You should bear extra confidence and keep in mind that overly introverted attitude could appear across as standoffish or snobbish.

Find usual interests. You can mention some of your interests and hobbies to find out those people who share the same interest with you. If you find somebody who does, keep your attention to him or her. On the other hand, when no one shares the same interest with you, move forward. You must not be discouraged but keep on trying. Don’t lose hope.

Also, you need to listen to what other people say. You must pay adequate attention to those people you are meeting. Look at them one by one as your potential new friend with a particular interest. Do not forget to find out their interest while you talk to them. Show appreciation when other people show true care regarding shared interests and concerns.

Hold a simple and small party. You can organize a get-together at your residence. You can make it either a large or a simple and small party; just choose what suits you. Prepare some recipes and drinks and few games or movies to avoid any awkward interlude.

You should wait for someone to invite you to go out and have fun. If you are the only one who initiates contact, it’s your turn to wait for your new friends to ask you to go with them. It will give you the chance to meet the inner circle of your friends. Hopefully, some of them may become your new friends too. Rest assured that you will find yourself having a big circle of friends someday.

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