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Chapter 6: Stick to the dating rules and strict moral standards
Synopsis
In order to play the dating game well, the individual should be really aware of the underlying but very7 important rules that generally govern the entire exercise at every juncture. These rules if acknowledged and followed to a certain level will allow the individual to avoid any unwanted problems that may arise from the dating experience.
The following are some dos and don’ts that would require some consideration if the individual intends to have pleasurable experiences when indulging in the dating game:
Stick To It
Taking the trouble to groom one’s self so that a presentable individual can be made ready for the date would be the first consideration to ensure. This is to ensure the visual package is appealing to the other party and would also show the individual’s commitment to making a effort for the date.
Being punctual is another very important consideration to ensure is actively and seriously exercised. Failing to be punctual can speak volumes about the individual’s character and commitment level to the date and the potential relationship that would be anticipated.
Being attentive and focused on the other party on the date is also something that should be ensured. There is nothing more insulting and demeaning than ignoring the other party and using the time to let the eyes and mind wonder.
Making a conscious decision not to have sex on the first date is also extremely important. Although the attraction may be evident, waiting would be well advised. Getting to know the other party before taking the encounter to the next level would give them both a chance to actually find out other enjoyable things, which could potentially contribute to keeping the relationship alive after sex has been enjoyed. This information gained would eventually help the relationship grow into something more rewarding and exciting.
Chapter 7: Go on a date only in well-lit public places
Synopsis
There are quite a few precautions that one should initiate when going on dates. These are often necessary to ensure the safety of the individual is kept as a priority and to avoid any unwanted and potentially dangerous occurrences.
When the venue of the date is being arranged, the most important element to consider is if the place and time decided upon is suitable and safe. The ideal scenario would be metting for coffee during the day especially on a weekend when most people are out and about.
This would ideally present the busy conditions that would ideally secure the venue as being safer. The daytime date however should not viewed as totally safe, and some level of caution should still be consistently practiced.
The Areas
If the date has been arranged to take place during the late evening or night, then the lighting of the venue should be seriously considered. Being able to view the surrounding area and the other party clearly is very important and dominant in the safely issue angle. Besides being able to see everything clearly, there is also the idea that other can see the individual and the date too.
This sense of public exposure will help limit the chances of any unpleasant scenarios from unfolding. Well lit areas are also good as they provide a sense of security for the individual on the date. When all things are clearly visible, the individual will be able to be more relaxed and concentrate on having a good time rather than to be stressed out on safety issues the entire date.
Well lit areas also present a better amount of activity and this is also another beneficial and often sought after scenario. Besides the obvious safety comforts it presents, the individuals are also able to be identifiable by other should this become a necessary element for the future.
Chapter 8: Do not accept a ride home on the first date
Synopsis
There are a lot of different issues to he considered when the individual is busy contemplating the dating game. Some are more complex than others and require a little more thought and consideration. One of the issues that should be seriously considered is the mode of transportation being considered for the date.
Rides
Getting there and getting back should be arranged well before the date. This is something that should be considered and definitely not left to chance as there are many connecting factors that could cause this particular part of the date, to be a stressful point. Most people going on dates, especially if it is still in the first few encounters, would be strongly advised not to accept a lift from the other party. For safely and convenience reasons, the individual should make his or her own arrangements to get back and forth from the date venue. This would be a more reliable option and certainly one that would be better in terms of security.
The issue of safety is normally foremost in the mind of the individual going on the date and taking all precautions necessary would effectively limit the possibility of things going wrong. Generally no one wants to have to worry about other distracting issues when on the actual date. It is quite a common practice for one party, popularly the male counterpart to offer to take the female home after the date. Though it may seem to be a nice gesture on the part of the male, there could be some underlying misconceptions at play, which may end up being unpleasant, uncomfortable and even dangerous for the party who is not interested or does not want to play along. This is especially so if one party or both parties has a little too much to drink and are not quite sober enough to think straight.
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