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If you like and are comfortable with who you are, then chances are you do not need to work very hard at becoming a more appealing and charismatic personality. People who are most comfortable in their own skin are not the people who seek to improve on or alter their personalities.
If you feel satisfied with the person you are now then you are probably one of those people that worked hard to obtain a lovable personality. Common people who are most comfortable in their own tegument are not the rabble who nose* to improve on or alter their personalities.
Rather, it is those people who are shy, retiring or may be insecure in their own identities that are most likely to want to change something about themselves to make them somehow more appealing to those around them, not realizing that very often the person others see them as is merely a reflection of how they project themselves.
People who are less comfortable with who they are often reflect this, whether consciously or unconsciously, in the way that they interact with other people. If they are less outgoing and more retiring, what is in fact just a shy or insecure nature may even be seen as snobbish, cold, or uninterested in those around them.
These people are often misunderstood because they are unconsciously projecting an image of themselves that, while not accurate of their true selves, is really a reflection of who they believe other people think they are. Since other people will only reinforce this perception by reacting to their own misunderstandings of shy people, the shy person then becomes even more withdrawn, creating a truly unhappy cycle. It is these people and not those who are confident in themselves and comfortable and happy with whom they are as people, who are most likely to want to change or improve their personality.
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