Overcome Shyness 101 Plr Ebook

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Do you have an “inner you” that is striving to break free? Chances are that you do. You most likely wish that you did not feel so shy all of the time or else you would not even be reading this book. Part of you would love to be comfortable around people and be able to make friends with ease. The good news is that this is possible no matter who you are.

If you are not happy with the way that your life is working out, it is up to you to change it. Too many times, people wait for others to come in and make the changes that they want in life instead of making the changes on their own. It is not difficult to change your life. You just have to realize what you want to fix and then take steps towards a goal that you have in mind for yourself. Your goal, in this case, should be to not be shy any longer. This is a long term goal. You will not lose your shyness overnight, but over a period of time, you can discover the inner you and become a more outgoing person.

The first thing that you need to do to discover the inner you is to figure out what about you makes you unique. Stop thinking negatively about yourself and concentrate on the positive aspects of your personality. Do not worry about your physical appearance as this is not as important as you think it is when it comes to having an outgoing personality. You have probably noticed people who were very attractive but who did not come off as someone who you wish to get to know. You have probably also noticed those who are not as attractive as others and who tend to draw people to them.

A case in point can be made over a friend I had in college. When I first met this friend, I will call him Bill, I was not very much taken with him as I saw only his physical appearance, which could best be described as average. He sat next to me in one of my classes one day and I was mildly annoyed. I had been hoping that a good looking guy who I noticed earlier would sit in that exact seat.

A funny thing happened after that. I got to know the good looking guy and Bill and quickly realized that Bill was the one person I wanted to get to know better. The good looking guy was nice to look at, but had zero personality. Bill, on the other hand, had a bevy of girls drawn to him all of the time. He had a dynamite personality and despite the fact that he had an average appearance, was far more attractive than the good looking guy whose name I cannot even remember.

Many people are so wrapped up with the way that they look that they put their personality on hold. They are so self conscious of how they appear to others that they concentrate exclusively on how they look as if having good looks will automatically draw people to them. While it is important that you look as nice as you can for your own self confidence, good looks only go so far. Having a positive personality and letting the inner you out of your shell is far more effective when it comes to winning friends and influencing people. No one can afford to just rely on their looks alone.

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