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If you wish to change the mind of your spouse or mate concerning anything, you have to not say “But I love you...” I can tell you, stating that and stressing how much you love them isn't going to get them to change their mind.

When you state “But I love you...” you are in reality telling your mate that you wish him/her to do something your style! Not his/her style.

Recall that “human beings tend to love themselves to a higher degree than anything else!” When you state “I love you...” you are in reality loving yourself more. You wish your spouse to do things which will gratify your ego, thus you wish your spouse to do things your way. And your spouse recognizes it! He/She is not going to alter his/her mind simply because you tell them “I love you...”

If you wish your spouse to do particular things your way, you have to not say to your partner “But I've done this and this for you...”

Prevent stirring up the past about what you've done for him or her. The past is already deceased. Stressing how much you've done for your spouse will only tell him/her that he/she has to do stuff your way because that's the price they have to ante up for all that you've helped them do in the past.

The more you state this, the more your mate will wish to drift apart from you or leave you. He or she will be too frightened to be with you as they know their motion is restricted by how much they may repay you.

So, at any expense, prevent giving them the feeling that they have to ante up a price simply to be with you! No one on this Earth likes to be commanded or restricted by another individual!

Prevent stating things like “But it’s your duty....”

Your mate won't like to be tied down by duty or obligations. When it bears on relationship, there can be rules. Love is unconditional. By

Stressing too much on duty, you're going to turn your mate off.

He or she won't desire to be with someone who wishes to impose rules and ordinances on them. So, it is your job and obligation to see that you give your spouse no excuse to leave you for some other individual.

So, what precisely must you say if you wish to alter the mind of your spouse to make them accomplish things your way, or view things your way?

First of all, stress the strong points if they view things your way. Let them recognize the Advantages and benefits of executing and viewing things your way. Provide them clear-cut explanations.

Second, remember your mate isn't concerned about what other people want. He or she isn't worried about what you wish. He/she is more interested in what he/she wants and what he/she may receive. A lot of times, they're not against your thoughts, or whatever it is you need, but they're really against your pushing aside their freedom of choice.

So, provide them what they desire. Provide them freedom of choice. Let them know they've the freedom to choose what they wish to believe in or what they don't wish to believe in. And let them know they've the freedom to decide what they wish to do, and what they wish not to do.

The magic words you are able to tell them are “Yes! I comprehend what you're saying. Why don't you try it /do it...”

“Yes” is the magic word which unites you and your partner right away.

“I comprehend...” demonstrates you're with your partner, you're hearing them out, and you honor their decision.

“Why don't you try it / do it...” tells them you back their decision or choice, even though you're not in favor of it.

If you've a competitor, always remember, the individual who may give your mate more freedom of choice will most likely be the one your mate wishes to be with most.

If you bear all the above precepts in mind, you're likely to have more success in altering your mates mind and make them accomplish things your way.

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