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Chapter 8 – Getting to Know Each Other Again
This is the fun part. Getting to know each other the first time was part of why you want them back now, so take your time when reacquainting yourselves. Do things together that you have never done. If there is a place that your ex always wanted to go that you would never go with them, now is a good time to show them that you are open to their ideas.
Doing the same things that you, enjoyed doing when you were together before can be a safe comfort zone, but it can also lead to problems. The more of your past that you inject into the future the more problems you are asking for. Going somewhere that the two of you have history is better left for later when the relationship is more stable.
You may want to make a list of things about yourself that your ex does not know or a list of questions about your ex that you do not know the answers to. Do not bring this list out on your first date and start clicking things off. Just keep these things in mind to randomly bring up in conversation. The more new things you can introduce into your relationship, the more new and fresh it will seem.
Your ex will be pleasantly surprised by your new interest in them.
There is a fine line here, though. While exploring new experiences with your ex can bring you closer together, do not pretend to like something that you do not. The point is that you are trying things, not that you are pretending to be someone you are not. Your ex should appreciate the gesture of you trying the new activity even if you do not like it.
Also, try to come up with ideas of things for the two of you to do together that is outside both of your comfort zones. This way one of you does not feel more confident than the other and you can use it as a bonding experience.
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