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Being yourself really only "works" on women if you are actually confident in your personality. This is critical to dating and seduction, but more importantly, it's critical to your happiness in general. If you are not confident in the value of your own personality, you have a larger problem than being nervous around women. So, let's go ahead and address that.
The truth is, you really have a lot of choices when you decide which attributes you have that define you as you. You really do get to choose. If you decide that there are certain things about yourself that you like and decide to make that a defining characteristic of "you", then that attribute is much more deeply rooted than your other, peripheral attributes. The same goes for those attributes that you don't like or think are negative.
Think about this: have you noticed that it's a lot harder for someone to get out of a depressed period in his life if he feels like depression defines who he is? It makes sense that this would be the case, since the belief that you can't change prevents you from ever even making a solid effort.
The same goes for confidence, skill with women, happiness, or whatever other aspect of your personality that you have. If you believe that not having confidence is part of who you are, you are doomed from the beginning.
When I mention things like "the real you", I'm talking specifically about the positive attributes that you see in yourself that you feel identify you as an individual. That could be anything - your humor, your "go with the flow" attitude, your intelligence, your persistence, and the list goes on. I am specifically not talking about the things that you don't like about yourself or about some abstract and ideal "you" that you've conjured up in your head.
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