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You already know that you should prepare yourself mentally, emotionally, as well as physically before you enter/open a set. And, you also know that your general attitude and frame of mind should be relaxed, fun and playful.
So, your body language should match your fun, playful and relaxed state of being. If it isn’t,women will notice the disconnect between your attitude and your physiology, which will make them feel hesitant and cautious about you.
That means, you have to be aware of the overall body language you’re are displaying, and communicating to others.
Therefore, your overall body language should be relaxed... and not jumpy, nervous or jittery. Your arms should be relaxed and not folded/crossed tight. Your hands should be open and relaxed and not tightened into fists. It also means that you should open your body up and take up some space, instead of hold it tightly inward.
Your breathing has to be normal, relaxed and free-flowing as well… and not short and shallow. Your voice, tonality, and the speed with which you talk should also match your overall relaxed and fun persona. So, instead of being high-pitched, your voice has to resonate and travel.
If your sentences appear to be fast, rushed or hard to understand, it won’t work. And, if you’re in a club, you have to be fairly loud in order to be heard by everyone in the group. If the women have to ask you to repeat yourself, that will immediately take some of your value away from you. You also don't want to lean in while talking or listening to them.
If needed, practice all of the above in front of a mirror before you leave home. (Or sneak into the restroom of the restaurant, club, bar, etc. to get into the right frame of mind and body.)
Also… get used to people watching you as you walk into the room (especially when you start doing well with opening and engaging women.) And, walk in with relaxed confidence. Stand tall.
The key point to remember is that you are communicating just as much with your physical body - and with your vocal delivery - as you are with the words you use.
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