5 Deadly Mistakes To Avoid On Your First Date Give Away Rights Ebook

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Keep Your Eye on the Ball

When you're out on that first date, and even on any future dates with her, keep your eye on the ball. Hint: She is the ball.

That means, do not get distracted by the other "women" around you. Do not give other women too much attention, do not stare at them, and, do not flirt with them.

Especially, do not flirt with the waitress/server or help, wherever you are... even if they try to flirt with you. Be polite but non-flirty.

This does not mean that you should keep your eyes glued to your date at all times. That would be creepy.

However, make her your main focus for the evening...from the moment you meet her (or pick her up) for the date, till the moment you part ways at the end of the date.

You can look at other people around you, including other women. You can be friendly with them. You can even talk to them a little, depending on the situation.

But, don't show any romantic or sexual interest towards them, of any kind.

If you do, your date could very easily be insulted, made to feel unimportant, or worse... she may think you're just another guy, with no real standards, who will jump at any female that's breathing.

Even if your date was going to consider you as a casual thing or a "friends with benefits" potential, she could still change her mind if she sees you flirting with other women too much instead of giving her the attention.

Don't Say Nothing

One of the biggest complaints women have about going on the first date is that most guys have nothing much to say.

Women claim that men are either too quiet on a date (while the woman is sitting there twiddling her thumbs) or they talk too much without really saying anything worth listening to.

So, have something to say during your date with her... which shouldn't have anything to do with sports (unless she's into it,) cars, ex-girlfriends/wives and how much you hate them, bragging about yourself, your work or your money, or any other crap that you would talk about with your guy friends.

You should talk about subjects that women are also interested in.

These subjects can include talking about the last trip/vacation you took, something interesting or fun that you did with your family or friends, some interesting new book you've read (or are reading,) and so on.

Heck, you can even talk about movies, TV shows, or music, if you can't think of anything else.

Just be interesting! And, appear to have an interesting life instead of the same ol' humdrum existence that most men live. (This doesn't mean that you should start bragging about what an interesting life you have. Just share some stories and experiences that are "female friendly."

Yes, many women love to talk. But, it doesn't mean that you should dump all the responsibility on her, to keep the conversation going.

It is actually highly advisable that you come up with some interesting things to talk about before you meet her for the date.

Do Unto Others...

Making her the main focus of your evening, and giving her the attention she deserves, is great.

But, all of that stuff will mean nothing if you don't treat others (around you) in a civil and respectful manner.

You could give her all the attention in the world. Heck, you could even treat her like a princess for the evening...

But, none of that would matter or mean much if she witnesses you treating others with arrogance, anger, or with any aura of "jerkiness" about you.

How you treat other people is always a much clearer sign of who you really are.

Moreover, treating her nice and sweet while you're being a jerk to everybody else will also make her wonder about your motives.

She will see your entire "nice and sweet" behavior towards her as a ruse to get what you want out of her, without really having any genuine care or interest in her.

And, that will not end well for you.

So, whatever it is that you do to others around you will be seen by her as who you really are. That means, she will believe that that's how you are going to treat her - after you have got what you wanted from her.

That means, if you want her to see you as a cool dude that she'd want to hang out with more, you've gotta be cool with everyone around you...not just with her.

The above five mistakes to avoid may or may not seem like a big deal to you.

But, if you'd like to greatly improve your chances of going out with her again, you may want to start paying attention to what's shared above.

There are a handful of other deadly mistakes most men tend to make on first dates, and maybe we'll talk about that in a future report...

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